I've written before about Question #1. "do you love me?". That's easy. Then there is Question #2 - "do you STILL love me?".
But then there is the zinger. Which I got tonight, after a long and good discussion about her condition and strengths and deficits. "Do you still love me as much as you used to?".
There is no respite for caretakers, from a logistical, physical, mental or emotional perspective.